Try not to envy those you do not know intimately, it's likely that you're not seeing the full picture.

    August 15, 2019
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    Try not to envy those you do not know intimately, it's likely that you're not seeing the full picture.

    The Art of Living - Issue #23

    Recently I read a story in The Guardian about a man who had appeared to have it all. He was successful, wealthy, and well-liked by those around him. However, behind closed doors, he was struggling with severe depression and addiction issues that eventually led to his suicide.

    This story reminded me of an important truth: we rarely see the full picture of someone else's life. What we observe from the outside is often just a carefully curated highlight reel.

    Social media has made this phenomenon even more pronounced. We see vacation photos, career achievements, and happy moments, but we don't see the struggles, the failures, the lonely nights, or the personal battles that everyone faces.

    The next time you find yourself envying someone, remember that you're likely comparing your inner reality with their outer appearance. You're comparing your behind-the-scenes with their highlight reel.

    Instead of envy, try practicing compassion and gratitude. Be grateful for what you have, and remember that everyone - no matter how successful they appear - is fighting their own battles.

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    Chris Carey

    Chris Carey

    Post-exit entrepreneur, coach, and aspiring author

    Chris built Modern Automotive Performance from a bedroom startup to an Inc. 500 company before successfully exiting in 2020. He now coaches entrepreneurs and shares the strategies that drove his success.

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